The boy replies, “Don’t try to bend the spoon, that’s impossible. Instead you must simply realize the truth.” Neo asks, “What is the truth?” The boy replies, “There is no spoon.”

When we learn to see through the illusions and the fear-based perceptions of the paradigm created by our fears and our negative self talk, then we begin to free our minds from the impact of these fears. Automatically, our habitual coping strategies and our current cycles of conflict begin to dissipate and unravel. We begin to become more responsive to the needs of the present moment rather than being stuck on the cycles of conflict dictated by our past.